I
knew from the beginning that I wanted to exclusively breastfeed for the
first 6 months and continue breastfeeding for 2 years. I nursed my
sweet baby girl within an hour of her birth and we quickly developed a
blissful nursing relationship. From the beginning she did so well with
nursing. She would latch on well, eagerly nurse, and her weight gain at
her well checks was always great. Our pediatrician would tell us she was
a perfect little baby. By two months she had already gained almost 3
lbs and was weighing in at 9lbs 1oz.Could
it be this easy? No. As all of you Mommas can attests, nothing about
being a Mother, except for loving your child, is necessarily easy. The
first test for me was Savannahs colic. For the first three months of
her life she had a severe case. While this was unrelated to our nursing
success, the long bouts of crying and the 87 consecutive sleepless
nights wore a hole in my confidence as a new mommy. I was tired and
almost desperate when we went into her four month well check. The nurse
called us back and I put her on the scale and removed all of her
clothes. I was pretty excited to see how much she had gained over the
past two months. The nurse meticulously slid the bars along the scale
until the arm balanced out and she stepped back to read her weight, nine
pounds 3 ounces. My heart skipped a beat. The nurse looked down at her
chart, showing 9.1 lbs for her 2 month visit and looked at me, lets try
that again. Yes, I thought, it must have been something wrong with
the scale, but once again 9lbs 3oz.A
million things ran through my mind as we sat in the exam room waiting
for the pediatrician. Why hasnt she gained any weight? It cant be my
milk, she is nursing great. What if my milk does not have enough fat in
it? Is the doctor going to want me to put her on formula? I am not
giving my baby formula! But what if something is wrong? And on and on
and onBabies
have to gain weight. They have to grow. Its not negotiable. I knew
this. This was an issue we had to address. While my Mr. Rogers-like
Pediatrician did a great job of not over reacting and freaking me out
further, we did spend a lot of time discussing our nursing habits as
well as the possible reasons for this. Because our nursing was going so
well, he too was perplexed. We had some medical test run to find out if
there was any absorbency or metabolic issues and then he suggested I see
an IBCLC. That wonderful man never mentioned formula and I am so
thankful because it would have crushed me.All
of her test came back normal, so that lead us to think it was probably a
supply issue. My husband and I rented a hospital grade baby scale and
weighed Savannah before and after each feeding (as suggested by my
doctor) for a 24 hour span. Our 9 pound baby who should be drinking
about 20-25 ounces a day was getting 12-14 ounces in a 24 hour period.
My baby was STARVING!OH
THE GUILT. I did not know what true heart breaking guilt was until this
had happened to me. How could I not have known? Where were the signs?
She never cried for more when she was done nursing, as a matter of fact
that was the only time in our colic riddled months that she did not cry
(right after nursing). Had the colic masked the signs of hunger? I had
to be the worst mom in the world right? What were people going to think?
My precious baby needed food and I wasnt giving it to her! How many
times had she been hungry and I though she was sleepy or gassy? Oh I
could fill pages with the questions in my head. I remember the point
that I just broke. I was sitting in the passenger seat of our truck and I
was balling hysterically. I had failed. Or so that is how I felt about
myself.It
is what happened next that is the real motivation for sharing my story.
I had not failed. I hadnt even done anything wrong. But it took a lot
of support, professional help, and a long road to self forgiveness for
me to understand that. A low milk supply can happen to anyone and it can
be a challenge to overcome, both physically (increasing your supply)
and mentally (forgiving yourself and moving on). I am extremely lucky to
have a supportive family and to live and a very pro-breastfeeding city
(Austin Texas). Once I took action, I was able to go from producing 12
ounces of milk in a 24 hour period to 25 ounces of milk in a 24 hour
period, in less than a week. I want to share with you how I did this. I
was very fortunate to have had numerous valuable resources at my
disposal. I know from my online breastfeeding groups and blogs that so
many Mommas who are facing this similar challenge do not have the great
resources that I did. I want to help them. I am going to share all of
the valuable tips, advice, steps etc that I received from my wonderful
IBCLC for free right here!*I
hope that these tips help any Momma who is in need, but please also
understand that this advice was given to me, based on my situation, my
breasts, and my baby. Not all of these things may work for every person
as they did for me. All of the information that I am providing is from
my Pediatrician or LC. If you are given different/conflicting advice,
please follow that of your own caretaker.The BEST Steps for Increasing Your Milk Supply:1.
If you have the resources the first thing you should do is have a
consult with an INTERNATIONALLY BOARD CERTIFIED LACTATION CONSULTANT.The
cost for my 2 hour private consult was $90.00. It was worth every
penny. I know that many families live on a tight budget and that an
extra $100 is not always available. But let me ask you this, if you are
unable to increase your milk supply on your own and you do not get
professional help, how much will supplementing with formula until your
baby is one year+ old cost? I guarantee it will be more expensive than
$90.00
2. DONT BREAK THE BABY! It is a lot easier to fix/reestablish exclusive nursing than it is to heal a sick malnourished infant. If
your situation is like mine, and your precious baby is not getting
enough to eat, it is important that you supplement their caloric intake
until you alone can produce enough milk to sustain them. This does not
mean that you have to give your baby formula. I was lucky because I had
pumped a large enough stash over the first four months to be able to
supplement her with bottles of my expressed milk. But if you do not have
a big enough stash of frozen milk, supplementing with formula is the
next best step. My pediatrician recommends Enfamil Lipid. In his
research he has found that specific formula to be the closest to breast
milk on the market.
But how much should you supplement your baby?
My
Pediatrician instructed us to weigh our daughter before and after each
feeding for a 24 hour period of time to find out how much she was
drinking. For breastfed babies you cannot measure how much they are
eating with just one feeding. When babies are formula fed, you know you
are giving them six 4 ounce bottles throughout the day. But the breast
does not make the same amount of milk all day long. In most women, the
breast produces the most ounces of milk per feeding in the morning and
then tapers off throughout the day. It is very normal for a baby to
drink 10 ounces of milk at their morning feeding but maybe only 2-3
ounces of milk at an afternoon feeding.
How to weigh your baby:
We
were fortunate enough to be able to rent a hospital grade baby scale
from the Special Addition nursing store in Austin. You can however buy
a baby scale for under $50 at Babies R Us.
- Before a feeding, place your baby on the scale and document the weight. Make sure your scale shows ounces.
- Nurse your baby on both sides.
- Reweigh
your baby immediately after nursing. It is very important to make sure
your baby is wearing the exact same thing that he/she was when you first
weighed her. We are talking about ounces, so even a sock matters. Also
do not change his/her diaper between weighing either. Even if they have
soiled their diaper during the feeding, that pee or poop was in their
body during the first weight, so it needs to be included in the final
weight to get a true account of the amount of milk your baby is
receiving.
When
we did this, we found out our daughter was getting about 12 ounces less
than a baby of her weight should be consuming on a daily basis; so we
knew that until I could increase my milk supply, we needed to make up
for that 12 ounces by supplementing her. I chose to give her two six
ounce bottles. I gave one in the afternoon and one in the evening before
bed. Always supplement your baby after they have fully nursed at each
breast. I chose to supplement in the latter half of the day because my
breasts made the most milk in the morning.
Remember
the goal is to increase your milk supply not replace it. So only offer
supplementary milk AFTER a full feeding at both breasts.
Now that you have taken care of the needs of your baby, lets move on to actually increasing your milk supply3. NURSE AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE. The longer you can keep your baby on the boob the better!I
am fortunate enough to be able to stay home with my daughter, so
cuddling up on the couch and nursing all day was a viable option for me.
I tried to keep Savannah attached to my boob as much as possible. I fed
her every hour and every time she would wake up at night. I let her
sleep nurse, pacify suck, anything she wanted to keep my breasts
stimulated. Co-sleeping during this process can really help if you are
open to that style of parenting.
Keeping your breasts as empty as possible is the best thing you can do.
It will signal your body that you need more milk. If you let your
breasts get full, your body thinkshey, we have enough now.
If
you are a working mom, see if you can take off for a few days, or maybe
take a long weekend. If you have any vacation or personal days saved
up, I cannot think of a better reason to use them. Nothing will help
more than a sweet nursing baby. If this is not an option, try
baby-wearing the hours that you are at home. In the morning when you
wake up, nurse your little one like normal, then place them in any type
of baby carrier that you feel comfortable nursing in. That way you can
continue to nurse the entire time you are getting ready for work, eating
breakfast, and loading up your car. Even if they are just playing
around, any type of stimulation will be helpful. Do the same when you
get home from work.
Adding as many pumping sessions as you can, while you are away, is a must!
4. NURSE OFF BOTH SIDES MULTIPLE TIMES DURING A FEEDING SESSION.One
of the main culprits for my low milk supply was that I would often just
nurse off of one side. Many times Savannah would fall asleep after
eating off just one side, or she would unlatch and start to play. I
though this was a sign that she was getting enough.
If
you have milk supply problems always feed off of both sides, even if
you have to wake your little one up or coax them to finish the meal. If
you are really trying to increase your supply, it is even better to feed
off of both sides multiple times during the same feeding session.
Switch back and forth every 10- 15 minutes.
5. BE HEALTHY! Make sure you are eating a healthy diet and drinking enough water.Try
to eat as many fresh fruits and vegetables as possible and drink plenty
of water. This does not mean you have to gorge yourself with H2O. My
IBCLC told me to drink enough water until I was not longer thirsty. She
recommended cutting out all other beverages and just drinking water for a
week. This forces you to properly hydrate, instead of replacing water
with soda or caffeinated beverages.
My
meals were the last thing I wanted to think about when my baby was
hungry. I just wanted to focus on her. So I know how you feel. Just do
your best.
At that point, I considerd it a nutritional success if I had eaten something other than peanut butter and jelly for lunch.
Also
I found that if I just took a deep breath and focused on relaxing that I
could get my milk to come down faster. In the beginning, I would often
have trouble getting my milk to let down while I was using the pump. So I
would close my eyes and envision the milk rushing down out of the
ducts. I would think about it flowing out of my breast. Crazy as it may
sound, that actually worked for me and worked well.
5.
RENT A HOSPITAL GRADE BREAST PUMP. Hospital grade pumps are specially
designed to help you initiate, increase and/or keep your milk supply.I
rented a Medela Symphony from my local nursing store. You can also rent
them from almost all hospitals with LDR units and many OBGYN offices.
The cost varies depending on your city and how long your rent the
machine. Many places will give you a discount for a longer rental. You
also may be able to get a tax credit for this expense, so please keep
your receipt. I ended up keeping my rental pump for 2 months and it cost
me a total of $120.00. Once again, I felt this was well worth it and it
was definitely was cheaper than formula. However, I did not have to
keep it that long. One week at $70 was sufficient for my milk supply. I
chose to extend my rental to help me re-establish my frozen milk stash.
While
nothing will help you increase your supply as well as a baby, a
hospital grade pump will go a long way, especially if you are a working
mom. Pump as often as you can. If you are nursing all day, try pumping
at night when your baby is sleeping. I know this sounds like a marathon,
but the harder you go at it, the quicker you will increase your milk
supply.
Make
sure you have a knowledgeable professional show you how to properly use
your pump. Also make sure that all of the attachments are the correct
size for your breasts and nipples.
My
IBCLC recommended that I always use the milk that I pumped to
supplement my baby either that day or the very next. That is the point
right, to be able to provide your baby with the needed amount of ounces
in a 24 hour period? It also helps save your frozen stash or cut down on
the amount of formula you need to use.
6. POWER HOUR! This is one of the techniques that helped me the most.What I like to call Power Hour, is basically a super pumping session. This is how it works:
For
one hour, pump for 10 minutes then rest for 10 minutes. Pump for ten
minutes and rest for 10 minutes. Follow this exact pattern until you
have completed one hour. You should have pumped 3 times and rested 3
times during the hour. It is very important that you do this for an
entire hour, or else it will not have the same effect. You should do
this at least once a day, but a maximum of two times per day. The goal
is not to get a lot of milk, but more to stimulate your breasts.
I
did power hour at night right before I went to bed. I chose this time
because I knew Savannah was sleeping and would not need me for at least
3-4 hours. During the first two days I tried to do power hour twice a
day; once at night and once during the day. My day time attempts were
unsuccessful because my baby always needed me and that interrupted the
session. So I chose to only do this at night. I knew it was working when
my breast would start to fill up at bedtime and during my first 10
minute pumping session I was able to get 2 ounces out of each breast.
(When I started I could only get ounce).
7. MAKE SURE YOU ARE USING THE CORRECT SIZE NIPPLE SHIELDS. Most
Mommas are fortunate enough not to need these pesky little things. If
this is you, feel free to jump down to number eight. However, if you are
like me and use them because you need to, or your baby feels they need
to, this could be very important.In
the hospital I was introduced to my first nipple shield by the in house
LC. She recommended that the nurse bring me a nipple shield. The nurse
brought me the size medium and said that was the best size for me. So we
nursed with that size for four months. During my consult with my newly
chosen IBCLC regarding my supply issues, the first thing she noticed was
that I was using too large of a shield.
She explained that when using a shield, you should use the smallest one
you can fit into. Using too large of a shield can sometimes reduce the
amount of milk the baby can get out of the breast. A smaller shield also
allows you to feel more of the sucking sensation which is ultimately
more stimulating to the breast.
8.
SUPPLEMENTS. I saved this for last because my LC was very assertive in
the fact that these items should only be used in addition to all of the
practices above. If you are NOT doing number 3 through 5, then this will
not go very far in helping to increase your milk supply.You
can read many nursing blogs and websites that will give you a large
list of various supplements to help boost your milk supply. They range
from brewers yeast to flaxseed. I am not going to list them all here,
because it is a long list and because I did not use them. I want to stay
true to giving you advice that I know worked for me.
I
asked my LC about these supplements during our consult and she said
that while they couldnt hurt, to be efficient about which you use. For
example, I see ads all the time for Mothers Milk Tea, so I asked her
about it. She said that while it does have milk boosting qualities, to
get enough of the supplement to really help your supply you would have
to drink gallons of that tea a day. She recommended just taking the high
dose mothers milk capsules.
The
only other thing she really recommended was eating oatmeal. So I ate a
bowl of oatmeal every morning for breakfast. I do think this helped. So I
do recommend at least trying it. Oatmeal is something most people have
in their house and it can be easily integrated into your daily meals.
There were some days that I had oatmeal that I felt my breasts were a
little fuller that afternoon.
I
know this is a lot of information, but when I found out I had a low
milk supply I just wanted to know what would work as quickly as
possible. I followed all of these steps and I was able to drastically
increase my milk supply in a very short time. So I know that it does
work. I hope this helps you!